Hilda Effiong Bassey, known by her stage name Hilda Baci, recently delved into the deeply personal and emotional tale of her fractured relationship with her father, Effiong Bassey Edem, shedding light on the disheartening experience.
In a candid conversation on the Tea with Tay podcast, the Guinness World Record holder recounted the core issue that strained her connection with her father – his abrupt absence from her life.
Hilda expressed that her father had been a constant presence in her and her siblings’ lives since their childhood. However, a pivotal moment marked a turning point when a heated confrontation between her parents had repercussions for the children.
What deeply wounded her was the unexpected departure of her father, a departure that came at a critical juncture as she and her elder brother were on the verge of completing their university education.
Hilda found it particularly perplexing that her father had ceased funding their education, especially given his unwavering support throughout their academic journey, spanning nursery, secondary school, and the early years of their tertiary education.
Recalling a profoundly painful memory, Hilda recounted a day when she reached out to her father to discuss her educational expenses. To her dismay, he answered the call only to disavow their relationship, effectively playing the disheartening card of “I’m not your dad.”
This poignant revelation by Hilda Baci offers a glimpse into the complexities of familial relationships and the emotional impact of estrangement, resonating with those who have faced similar challenges in their personal journeys.
